niyaz al-rayyan...& niyaz al-rifqi...

last nite mommy mimipi..mmg la evdyday mimpi but this time mimpi ni lain sket...i had a dream sumone came to me n ask me to name my baby as niyaz al-rayyan...cm best jer kn..erm d dream was short je thn mommy trus bgn nk p shishi..huhu...
erm...patut ke mommy n abi ikut my dream tu yek..??feel like mmg nk ikut pn n mommy even dh dpt d name for our second twin yg cm kena dgn d name niyaz tu...hehe..niyaz al-rifqi..ha cmne?ok x..hehe actually name rifqi tu is nama one d ustaz yg bg ceramah kt masjid ni..mmg time preggy ni mommy suka tgk d ustaz..hehe..abi jgn marah ek...
but d names seems too long la plk kn..ermm..xpela..still got time to choose kn..but wht ever pn mommy nk d name rayyan n rifqi mst ade in my twinnies name..even now mommy pn dh slalu ckp2 wth d twinnies n panggil dorg wth d name rayyan n rifqi..mommy suka,suka,suka....

erm..now mommy trsgtla cpt rasa penat...maybe cz bawa 2babies kot..since mommy dh enter 8mnths ni rs cm xsabar nk jmpe my twinnies...theee..i just wonder how they look like?r they gonna hv a dimple n big eyes as i am or mata steam abi dorg yek?hehheh...
brg2 baby 4 this time being i think dh cukup..just yg bsr2 la mommy n abi rs later la pn blh..nk tunggu btl2 sale kot..huhu kena pndai shoppin 4d twins kn..hospital beg memang mommy n abi dh prepare since d time doc ckp we might bring out d baby early...sumtimes i feel like it's ok if d twinnies kluar awal as me n hubby mmg dh xsbr nk jmper our twinnies kn..but of coz we want our twinnies 2be really ready wth good weight n superb health condition kn..but ni semua ketentuan Allah..kt hanya blh merancang..Allah jua yg menentukan...
so td dh wt check-up n doc kt as for now xde yg perlu di risaukan...baby nye "doppler reading" pn ok..so mommy n abi feel so lega as d babies blh dok dlm pewot mommy lg..tmbah berat lg...tndang2 mommy lg...thee..mommy n abi sayang abg n adik kay...

rezeki anak2....

2day mommy dpt surat tawaran keje..MasyaAllah..mcm sgt la xpecaya cz all this while betahun-tahun mommy apply keje 'Gomen', xpenah nye la yg dpt..ni la yg org kt rezeki anak-anak kn...sekali mintak n pergi interview time boyot-boyot pn Alhamdulillah mommy dpt keje...mommy got d offer from UTM to be a Penyelia Asrama..job mommy ni nnt same cm abi..so nnt mommy blh la p n blk keje same2 ngn abi...yeay!!!so after discussing wth abi, mommy decide nk lapor diri on d 4th of december 2009 kr nnt sng la nk kr gaji..ewah..blm keje dh ckp psl gaji ek..hehehe...xla..mommy kena p wt check-up kt hosp.bsr so xkn la nnt br msuk keje dh nk kluar2 plk kn..erm baik kn mommy ni..hikhik..erm lg pn sng la ati nk keje dh settle check-up kn..pape pn mommy memang syukur sgt dlm thn ni betambah-tambah rezeki 4mommy n abi...Alhamdulillah...

Can I Nurse my Premature Baby?

This few days mommy did loads of reading n browsing d internet bout premie babies...n this is one of d article wth important topic n mommy rs mommy memang kena tau...

Many moms wonder if they can still breast-feed their premature baby. Yes you can but it isn't always a easy road. Your milk is perfect for your baby because colostrum and your breast milk have antibodies, white blood cells, and immune properties that will help in your baby resisting infection.

• You can introduce breastfeeding around 32 weeks or so, as long as your baby is doing well. Some countries encourage putting your baby to the breast earlier.
• As you can you should begin expressing breast milk, Use a good breast pump when you milk comes in.
• You want to try to express you milk at least 6 to 8 times daily.
• Emptying you breast completely every time.
• Always use clean and sterile containers to express you milk into. A majority of hospitals will provide the containers for you.
• Your baby may be too premature to use your milk just yet, it can be frozen to use later.
• Make sure to label the container with your name and the date; the oldest milk will be used first.
• Make sure you get plenty of rest and fluids, to increase your milk supply.
• Increasing the frequency of pumping can help increase your supply.
• Answers to your questions, advice and support can be gotten from the nurses and/or a lactation consultant.

Keep in mind that sometimes even with the best of intentions your breast milk supply may decrease if all you can do is pump and your baby is still too small to nurse. If you have only managed to express a small amount of colostrum and breast milk, it will help your baby more than you realize.

Copyright © Angelia Fenton.

weekly check-up...

since mommy pn dh nk msuk 30weeks preggy n condition baby dlm pewot, start last week dh kena wat weekly check-up..this week rs nervous sgt nk jmpe doc..but at d same time xsbr nk tgk perkembangan my 2heroes ni..Alahamdulillah..their weight different dh xjauh beza dh..but doc kt kena observe their condition every week..now doc dh start wt "doppler reading".doc ckp mommy kena wt ni coz nk tgk graf aliran darah both of them...n Alhamdulillah, d graf shows good sign..both them dpt darah n all d nutritions secukupnya...lega hati mommy...erm 2morrow mommy kena wt MGTT test again..doc kt langkah berjaga-jaga..if dh kena diabetis nnt lg la ssh kn...insyaAllah semua dengan izin-Nya akan dipermudahkn n berjalan lancar...Amin...

prime babies....

this few days mommy dh ok skt..xla cm masa mula2 doc bg tau condition my twinnies tu..mommy dh pk if asyik sedey pn xguna kn..dh la xbaik 4d babies kn..so this few days i did loads of browsing d internet bout prime baby..how 2take care of them n mcm2 lg la kn...as they r very fragile so we need 2be extra care wth them..
mcm2 i jmpe dlm internet..ader jer baby yg lahir 500gram n Alhamdulillah dorg blh survive n dh bsr pn..it's just that they have 2 spend a long time in d hospital..ble tgk all d picts n videos bout them terasa sayu sgt hati mommy..ye la kn..tgk baby yg comel2 dlm incubator n dh ader wayer2 berselirat kn..xsmpai hati betol..i just can imagine how myself in that situation..but i pray to Allah as everytin will go smoothly...permudahkan la segalanya..
Amin...

hati x senang...

2day mommy kena amik d 3rd dos DECAN yg tujuan nyer utk matangkn paru2 baby...doc inject at d same spot..pedih nyer rasa..tp 4my babies biarla mommy sakit cmner pn kn...mlm td susah betol nk tdo..mimpi yg bukan2 jer..2la kn..ble emosi menguasai diri kn..syaitan pn mula la ganggu..mommy doa biarla mommy yg sakit asal nothing happen 2my baby...
doc tanya..so howwa u? ok? of coz la xok doc...sgt risau kn..thn doc ckp dun worry 2 much,its not good 4d baby plk kn..tp still la xkn la mommy blh suka2 plk kn..pe la doc nih..haishhh...
after d injection mommy dh xdak mood nk p keje...hati pn xsenang kn..abi plk xdpt nk teman p jmpe doc lg la mommy jd sedeyy...thn decide ah p jusco la..hepykn diri sndr, my own way...at 1st i thought just nk p window shopping ler kn...n mkn2 ker..last2 tejebak n habislah a few hundreds..Allahhuakbar..tp xpela kn..yg pntg beli brg2 pn utk my heroes gak...hikhik...
to my babies,
anak2 mommy...mkn same2 yer nak...share yer sayang...mommy n abi sayang sgt kt anak2 mommy n abi ni...xsabar nk tunggu u all come out..mmuuaxxx...

mommy takut...

today as usual mommy n abi p wt monthly check-up kt our private doc..tp kali ni sgt la xbest...semuanya cerita sedehh..n makes mommy risau sgt2!!!2day since morning pn mmg mommy asyik rs xsdp hati..
since dh 30 weeks preggy doc mmg check byk bndala especially for mommy yg carry twins like me kn..as usual doc akan ukur baby n from there dptla estimation brt baby kn..normally my babies nyer weight difference xbyk...just around 100-150gram difference...but at this time suddenly d 1st twin nyer weight dh 300+gram more thn d 2nd twin.doc said this is not good.really2 not good...ya Allah risaunye mommy time tu..in my mind dh start la pk yg bukan2...
b4 this mommy xpenah crite kn tht i'm carrying identicle twin so they r sharing d same womb.so evrytin have 2 be shared..food from mommy n all d nutritions.i did ask d doc is there anytin or any pills i should take?he said tht it's very simple..d only way is to pujuk my twinnies 2 share..talk 2thm evryday...mmg slalu pn mommy talk to my twinnies n insyaAllah i'll try my very best..
ble dh pk mcm2, so a lot of question la yg kluar frm my mouth kn..n as 4me d scarriest question will be "what's d worst can happen??" doc ckp if this continue, i might loose my 2nd twin..ya Allah..rs cm gugur jntung dgr doc ckp cm2..xkn seteruk itu??n he added tht if d 1st twin pn telebih dpt nutrition, it will dangerous 4him too...
Ya Allah..selamatkanlah anak2ku...thn doc kt lg..worst come 2 worst we hv to out d baby early..so babies will be prime babies..thn d doc ask me 2take DECAN injection..this is utk matangkn paru2 baby so tht if dorg kena lahir awal pn paru2 dorg dh ready...kena amik 3doses trus..mlm ni amik 2doses n 2morrow amik another dos...mommy ckp ngn doc, anytin best 4my babies doc..brape byk injections pn mommy xkesah...
d 2doses mmgla skt, rs cm perit sgt ms masuk tu..but mommy kuatkn semangat 4my heroes..
blk rumah tu mommy asyik nanges jer...rs cm xsng ati la sgt..mula la otak ni nk pk yg bukan2...thn abi tenangkn mommy n ajak same2 smbahyang hajat...doa byk2,minta Allah lindungi our heroes...

while mommy surfing d net td, i came across this intrsting article...erm...am i a good wifey to my hubby???big2 question mark rite there...yeah...evry womens dream 2 be d best 2 their husband..but kita ni hanyalah hamba-Nya yang tidak sempurna dalam serba-serbi kan..so frm this article blh la kt tgk situ-sini mana yg blh diprbaiki..insyaAllah...

Every married man wishes to have a good wife. Many people advice the new bride to be a good wife to her husband. But what are the makings of a good or perfect wife? Many women do not know. Many of the qualities of a good wife are already inbuilt in a person and the rest can be developed.

In India the qualities of a good wife or eight noble virtues an ideal wife should have are summed up in the verse from Neethisaram.

"Karyeshu Dasi, Karaneshu Manthri; Bhojeshu Mata, Shayaneshu Rambha,

Roopeshu lakshmi, Kshamayeshu Dharitri, Satkarma Nari, Kuladharma Pathni".

Here are some of the Qualities a man looks in his wife.

1) Be pleasant: It is said that ‘we need to treat others the way we want ourselves to be treated.’ Never be rude to our husband, family and friends. Be warm, kind, positive, understanding and friendly. Work to be pleasant toward your husband. Don’t be one of those people who make everyone around you feel bad just because you’ve had a hard day. Welcome your husband with a smile when he comes home instead of a sour face. A good wife honors her hubby by keeping a pleasant tone in her voice, a happy smile on her face and a neat and clean appearance. Listen to him talk about his day especially if it was a difficult one. If you don't like how you partner treats you, take a minute to notice how you treat your partner and correct your behavior.

2) Treat your Husband with Respect: If you expect respect from others we need to treat others with respect too. Haven’t we all heard ‘Give respect and take respect’. Respect can be reflected in the way one talks and behaves. Always speak in a loving and refrain from speaking in a harsh manner. A good wife respects her hubby and she never chooses to belittle, strike, humiliate or otherwise harm him in private nor in public. It is better to watch what you say and to think your thoughts through before speaking as it is not possible to take back the words once they have been spoken. A good wife will treat her man with respect in front of others and at home.

3) Communicate: Communication is key to a good and solid marriage. Do not hide things from your husband or keep secrets after marriage. Be honest to him. Find time to sit and talk with your husband on a daily basis even if it is for only half an hour. If you let things bottle up and feel that you cannot share with your husband anything then your marriage is in trouble. Be a good listener when your husband is talking. You may have a dozen important things to tell him but allow him to talk first. Don't greet him with complaints and problems the moment he comes back from work. Good Communication also helps to build trust and strengthen your relationship. After marriage the wife and husband are a team or partners. Do not take any major decisions about the family without consulting with husband. Fights or problems may happen in between the two but do not let the world know about it rather solve it between yourselves. The fight you had last week over shopping or whatever is over and done with. So move on with it and stop rehashing old stuff and reminding him of his faults. Do not resort to name calling, hitting, spitting, breaking dishes or anything else when you lose your temper. If you do he may actually start to fall out of love with you and you could lose him all together.

4) Be Supportive: A husband expects wife’s support and understanding especially in times of troubles. A good wife loves her hubby through his successes and failures and provides reassurance when he's feeling down. She is a nurturer and an equal partner in the marriage. Support your husband in all stages of his career and life. Do not belittle your man or hurt his ego. It is often heard saying that ‘a wife can make a man or break a man’. There’s no quicker way to build resentment in your man than to criticize him or belittle him especially in front of others. Be proud of him on his accomplishments and genuinely complement him. If you do this you can expect your husband to behave with you in the same manner and also respect you more for your support and thoughtfulness. When you don’t agree with him respectfully let him know you don’t agree.

5) Do not nag: No man would like a nagging wife. If you want to get your own way ask him nicely. Many wives think that is the only way to get her husband to do things is by nagging. But the truth is that your nagging can create unwanted rift or can make things worse between the two of you. Your husband is a grown man with his own thoughts and desires. Just because you think he should be doing something particular doesn't mean he has to do it.

6) Give him his space: As a wife you need to understand you’re your husband has a life other than you also. He has his family, friends and colleagues who too are part of his life. He also may have some hobbies or passions he is involved in. Don’t expect his undivided attention. Don’t stop him if he wants to go out and hang out with his friends sometimes or engage in a hobby or sport that he likes. An interfering wife can sometimes be too irritating.

7) Keep him happy in Bed: Sexual intimacy is one of the most essential things in any marriage. Please your man in bed. If you cannot keep your man happy in Bed he would go where he can get it. After all, a Man is a man!

8) Plan Surprises: Men like surprises too. It can be anything like organizing his birthday party without him knowing about it or planning a special night of passion by playing a seductress. Your surprises do not have to be elaborate and can be as simple as making him his favorite snack or his favorite dishes once in a while even if you would rather eat something else.

9) Express your love and appreciation often: Men likes praises and appreciation. Make the best of your time together. Men like to hear the words ‘I love you’ too. Also join him in activities that he's interested in even though you would have preferred to do something else or give him a thoughtful gift once in a while. Make it a point never to forget the special days in his life. Pamper him very often. Be his ‘little slave’ when he is at home. You can even cook for him or give him a good massage. Making him dependent on you by doing his chores when he is at home is not a bad idea. Let him miss you and think about you when you are not around. These gestures won’t go unnoticed and it may even inspire him to do something nice for you. Don't withhold affection.

10) Honesty, Loyalty and Dedication: A good wife would be honest, loyal and dedicated to her husband. Marriage is a life long commitment and the vows you have taken at the time of marriage should be kept in all conditions.

11) Prepare yourself: A good wife honors her hubby by keeping a pleasant tone in her voice, a happy smile on her face and a neat and clean appearance. Take special care about your appearance and everyday. Include exercises or yoga in your daily routine. Be hygienic. Some woman feel that once they are married why they should dress up or take care of their appearance. A man likes his wife to smell good. If you are unhealthy or not presentable your man may cheat you behind your back.

12) Prepare the House: Maintain a clean house all the time. Clear away the clutter and spend time decorating the house. Apart from this be wise with money and take all the responsibilities of a wife seriously without complaining.

tdo, tdo, tdo.....

ni la penyakit mommy sepnjang preggy ni..asyik tdo jer....slalu la berhajat nk update blog mommy tp hampehh..hikhik...malas sungguh okay!!!Alhamdulillah now mommy dh 27 weeks preggy..now keje2 umah l'sung la dh xbuat skarang...cian la dkt hubby semua la hubby kena wt..tp mommy tau,my hubbyboo will do anytin 4 d 3 of us kn..thanks abg..sayang abg!
so as usual la p wt check-up cm biase kt my private doc..erm this time cm lame skt kena scan..dgr heartbeat babies...cm so touch dgr their heartbeat..cm xpecaya kt dlm pewott mommy ni ade 2bdk yg sgt cute..theee... :)yg paling best is mommy n abi dh tau our babies nyer gender..doc said tht it's a boy!!!yeay mommy is carrying 2heroes...so there will be 4 heroes in my life...my babah,my hubby and my twinnywinnies!!!heart all u my heroes...muaaxxx...